This Volunteers’ Week, we’re celebrating the incredible individuals who give their time to support others and strengthen communities. This spotlight is on a volunteer from 2wish, a charity dedicated to supporting families and individuals who have experienced the sudden and unexpected death of a child or young adult.

Tell us a bit about yourself

I am a busy, single Mam of 3, one of my children has additional needs and I am a volunteer at 2Wish.

How did you get involved?

I first became involved with 2Wish after my eldest son took his own life in March 2020 and they supported me through this very difficult time. I decided a year later to get involved as a volunteer to give something back.  

I felt quite isolated before volunteering but now I enjoy supporting other families that have been through the same.  I can share my experiences with grieving families and support in alleviating some of the guilt that comes with carrying on after the loss of a child. It can be very hard to do but I can see how far I’ve come on my journey. I find that smiles and laughter can be very helpful in this role. My son is also a volunteer now, supporting siblings in bereaved families and I am so proud of him. It is great to see his confidence grow. 

What difference has volunteering made to you? 

Volunteering has taken me out of my comfort zone and increased my confidence. I have spoken about my experience and given speeches in front of lots of people, and it feels great to know that sharing my experience can make a difference. I have met new people and made lots of new friends; just knowing I can help people is important to me. It has been an amazing experience and I am forever grateful. 

What difference has volunteering made to your organisation?

Volunteers help with many tasks like fundraising and admin support, as well as supporting families. Volunteers take the pressure off and help the organisation to support families. For the community we support, it makes a difference that we can share our stories and talk about our children and our grief – it is helpful to be around others that have had a similar experience; it can give people hope at a difficult time.

What would you say to encourage others to volunteer?

I would say it’s a good laugh and you will enjoy yourself. It can give you a sense of purpose and is great for your wellbeing.

What 3 words would you use to describe volunteering:

Wellbeing, confidence and pride!